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Safe Beginnings: Protecting Our Children from Sexual Abuse
By Orieda Horn Anderson and Shirley Paceley
$15.95
Safe Beginnings, a healthy, affirming, how-to book, can reduce the risk of sexual abuse of children with and without disabilities. Practical and powerful, this book includes:
• Strategies for teaching preschool children self-respect, self-esteem, sexuality, and safety
• Skills for empowering children to resist and report sexual abuse
• How to create safe environments in nurseries, preschools, day care centers, and schools
• Tips for raising boys and girls
• What to do if abuse occurs
• Resources and ideas for social change
This must-read book is written with wisdom and compassion and features real-life examples.

Those are MY Private Parts (NEW!!)
Diane Hansen
$16.99
NEW! This book helps adults and children open healthy communication about what is okay and what is not okay when it comes to touching private parts of the body. It uses child-friendly rhyming and colorful illustrations by a four-year-old to incorporate messages about sexual abuse prevention. Statistics and information on childhood sexual abuse are included for parents and educators. A "MUST HAVE" for the children you care about!

Do-si-do with Autism
Sarah Stup
$15.00
The book's star is Taylor, the turtle with autism, who shares what it is like to feel pain from the overwhelming movements and sounds around him. His feelings are especially pronounced on square dance day at school when, filled with dread, he retreats to the sidelines and finds solace in his beloved books. To his surprise, however, his classmates follow his lead and, in doing so, begin to focus less on their differences and more on all they have in common.
Sarah Stup wrote Do-si-do with Autism as a way to introduce children to the importance and joy of building meaningful relationships with those who have autism and other developmental disabilities.

My Body...My Choice
Shirley Paceley, illustrated by Annette Russo Penhallegon.
$7.00
This fully illustrated mini-book is written for adolescents and adults with developmental disabilities. My Body...My Choice covers the basics of body safety and is empowering people with disabilities across the nation to resist and report sexual abuse.
The book can be used in group settings as well as on an individual basis. It has been incorporated into reading nights in group homes and used in recovery groups and prevention education classes. My Body...My Choice can also be used in peer education and "acted out" by individuals with disabilities. Plus, it's a simple, straightforward way for parents to teach their children about safety from abuse.

My Body...My Choice Set
$49.95
Set includes the fully illustrated mini-book written for adolescents and adults with developmental disabilities and 15 laminated cards which can be used in group settings to encourage discussions and role play about sexual abuse prevention. The colorful cards are leader friendly, featuring the words from the book on the back of each picture.

Raymond's Room
by Dale DiLeo
$15.00
"People with disabilities are the last minority group in which legal segregation for housing and employment is still routinely provided", writes human services professional Dale DiLeo. "And their lives are controlled by one of the last publicly-funded monopolies in America today." He speaks of the "disability industrial complex", a vast array of systems and funding sources that, once upon a time, paid for atrocities as Raymond's Room. This was a stifling, smelly bedroom where up to four "unruly" students at a school for children with autsim spent most of the day and even slept. Granted, services for people with disabilities have vastly improved since the days when Raymond's Room was a common phenonmenon, but today's society still has a long way to go in terms on integrations and inclusion. DiLeo encourages readers to think twice about services for people with disabilities. After reading Raymond's Room, one will hopefully see that all people with disabilities, regardless of degree or severity, deserve far more in life.

Doing What Comes Naturally? Dispelling Myths and Fallacies About Sexuality and People with Developmental Disabilities
By Orieda Horn Anderson
$19.95
Ms. Anderson challenges the beliefs and attitudes of family members, educators, and professionals concerning the sexuality of people with developmental disabilities. She then guides readers in helping meet the social-sexual needs of the people they love and serve. Overflowing with passion and filled with wisdom, this book provides a philosophical yet practical definition of sexuality.

Spirituality and Me: A Spiritual Gifts Assessment
By Rev. Amy Sagola-Bennett
$38.95
This book provides an insightful, creative assessment for people to
explore their individual spiritual gifts and to find how best to use
them in their lives.
Spiritual gifts have often been
overlooked as an important facet to people's quality of life, and the
time has come to pay attention to all needs, especially those that lie
deep within the emotional self.
This interfaith resource can
be used by everyone—individuals, staff, groups, families—in many
different settings. It includes ideas for making certificates,
necklaces, and bracelets as physical representations of individual
gifts. By searching for and identifying with spiritual gifts, people
are able to connect with one another and with the world around them,
which empowers them to be all they are able to be. The colorful and
unique images bring the spiritual gifts to life.

Lessons in Grief and Death: Supporting People with Developmental Disabilities in the Healing Process
By Linda Van Dyke
$24.95
Grieving is not a process to be avoided, rushed, or silenced. Lessons in Grief and Death tells poignant stories from the lives of real people. It offers valuable lessons about the cycle of life and the power of people with developmental disabilities to master this deep emotional challenge.

Feeling Good About Yourself: A Guide for People Working with People Who Have Disabilities or Low Self-Esteem
By Gloria Blum and Barry Blum
$19.95
Self-esteem is a process of learning how to give yourself approval and tell yourself, "I'm okay." It develops from the process of learning to give yourself approval as well as learning how to be responsible toward others. Self-esteem includes a balance with a sense of belonging, a sense of inclusion rooted within a deeper understanding that each of us is also like other people.
Feeling Good About Yourself is both inspiring and practical and includes ideas and activities to teach self-esteem, socialization skills, sex information, decision making, assertiveness, and victimization prevention.

Are Your Eyes Listening? (NEW!!)
Sarah Stup
$18.00
In this honest and heartfelt collection of writings, Sarah takes us inside her world so we can experience the very sights, sounds and feel of autism. Her vivid imagery and wrenching language reveals “the beast” but also the special gifts it imparts, gifts that make her the unique person she is. This book is about more than autism. Ultimately, it is a book about life. From family to oceans, coffee to snowflakes, writing to love—Sarah shares her insights about each and more through her poems, reflections and essays. In doing so, she joins the company of other great young writers. Sarah Stup of Federick, MD is a 23-year-old writer with autism—and a mission. Her dream is to help others better understand and accept people with autism. That message is at the heart of her book are your eyes listening?

We Dance Together
A collection of art and commentary by Candee Basford
$20.00
What can art teach us about disability issues, and about the journeys that people face when they or their loved ones have them? Everything. In this vivid and poignant book of paintings and reflections upon them, Candee Basford reveals the things that she has learned while living with her daughter, Katie. Pieces shown in the book include The Map to Community, Love is a Way of Knowing, The I.E.P. Meeting, and A Conversation with Katie, the painting from which the book's title is taken. Put aside your expectations, this is not an ordinary coffee-table book of art. We Dance Together weaves 26 years of lessons in love, relationships, ambiguity, and passion together. It is an authentic, personal look inside the ongoing civil rights struggle for dignity, justice, and inclusion of people with labels of disability.

The Short Bus
by Jonathan Mooney
$14.00
The short yellow vehicle has long been a symbol for disability, namely the limitations, preconceptions, and stereotypes associated with it. Jonathan Mooney, having been diagnosed with a learning disability, knows full well what riding "the short bus" means and what the outside world thinks of it and of people like himself. However, through a revealing journey across the United States in a short bus (which Mooney affectionately christens Bob Henry), Mooney learns that disability as we know it should never define who people are as people. He meets Candee and Katie Basford, the author and inspiration of the art book We Dance Together; Ashley, a girl who is non-verbal but speaks a thousand words with her eyes and gestures; Cookie Davis, an eccentric and transgendered man who revels in painting landscapes of his beloved Maine, and an energetic, paintball-loving boy named Brent among others. All of them, including Jonathan, either were or would be considered short bus riders, and yet they all transcend the hidden restrictions, small dreams, and low expectations that the world of the short bus has traditionally offered. Read this book and see what goes on inside The Short Bus, and I guarantee you won't "climb out" with the same perceptions you had before!
CDs

I Like Me!! Growing Songs for Healthy Children
$15.00
A CD of prevention music for all children. The CD includes songs about self-esteem, feelings, touches, telling, secrets, diversity, respect, and more. Includes 10 songs, 10 karaoke tracks, and activities.
Videos

The ABCs of Living with My Disability
$25.00
What's it really like to have a developmental disability? Amy Walker knows! Having lived with cerebral palsy since birth, she tells it like it is using the alphabet to relate her experiences in a poem. We hope it will make you laugh, cry, and think. Amy hopes to use the net proceeds from the sale of this DVD to start a "Dream Fund," so people with disabilities can afford their dreams.

Declarations of Independence
$39.95
This powerful four-minute video features 10 self-advocates proclaiming some of their deepest values concerning disability, civil rights, and living with dignity. Viewers will be both uplifted and challenged as self-advocates respond to the question, "What values are most important to you?" This short video is perfect for conferences, workshops, and staff trainings. Closed captioned DVD.

My Choice, Your Decision
$149.95
Using the acclaimed talents of the Interact Theatre Company, My Choice, Your Decision
illustrates the often hilarious differences between what people with
disabilities want for themselves and new fads of providing them
service. Comprised of actors with and without developmental
disabilities, Interact Theatre is brilliant at using humor to uncover
our most basic prejudices and common mistakes.
Exercises bring
participants through the ABCs of understanding choices and making
decisions. This video is a must for individuals and groups working on
the basics of self-advocacy and an effective tool for showing staff and
professionals how to share power. Learn how to set goals, make
decisions, and work through conflict. Choose from 12 easy-to-follow
exercises that build real-life skills.
My Choice, Your Decision
is perfect for staff trainings, self-advocacy gatherings, and everyone
working to improve service systems. It includes a facilitator’s
handbook with discussion guide, participatory exercises and tips for
trainers, and a closed captioned video featuring interviews with the
cast and director. My Choice, Your Decision is a National Council on Foundations Film Festival Award Winner.

NO How!
Dave Hingsburger and Diverse City Press
$50.00
NO How! was developed by Dave Hingsburger and Diverse City Press. The actors and actresses are people with developmental disabilities teaching others about sexual abuse—what it is and how to prevent it. The DVD includes all of the important elements of sexual abuse prevention as well as a problem-solving process for persons with developmental disabilities.
Miscellaneous

WE CAN Stop Abuse: A Sexual Abuse Prevention Curriculum for Persons with Developmental Disabilities
By Sandy Laesch and Shirley Paceley
$275.00
The WE CAN Stop Abuse curriculum was tested for two years in several Illinois communities and has been proven effective for teaching prevention skills to persons with developmental disabilities. The curriculum includes:
• Eight ready-to-use interactive sessions with several activities
• Curriculum materials for training parents and guardians
• NO How DVD
• Teach Me CD
• My Body…My Choice book, pictures, scenarios, and other teaching materials
• Introductory information for sexual assault center employees
• Goals and objectives for individual participants
• Evaluation instruments to measure individual skills
• Human sexuality resource list
• Overview of the WE CAN Stop Abuse Project in Illinois

Speaking in Front of Groups
$119.00
A curriculum for people of all abilities to learn how to be effective speakers. This resource can be presented as a full-day workshop or broken down into four sessions. The package includes a particpant's manual, trainer's manual, set of laminated pictures, and a CD with participant's manual and other documents.



